There are countless people who have used drugs, alcohol and other forms of personal abuse to help them cope and ‘escape’ from the severe storms of life. And, we find ourselves often celebrating those who have climbed out of the abyss of personal abuse successfully…as we should. Doing so is a great accomplishment.
Disappointment…
Depression…
Betrayal…
Loneliness…
Chronic Pain…
Abuse…
There are countless factors that have led people to turn to drugs and alcohol to both confront and avoid the demons that are attacking them emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
This piece is not meant to belittle or diminish those who have conquered their drug and alcohol demons, but to ALSO celebrate those who have gone through life’s darkest days without turning to drugs or alcohol.
Do you know anyone like that? Has it been you? Is that you now?
Rather than turning to drugs or alcohol, many have turned to the therapy of…
Good memories…
Good music…
Creativity…
Family…
Friends…
And of course their faith in God through Yeshua the Messiah (Jesus Christ).
It’s easy to say, “Just give it to God”, but how do you do that?
1 Peter 5:7 (NKJV)
7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
Part of growing in relationship with God is learning to…
1. First tell Him, “I can’t handle this alone, please help me!”
2. Pray for the strength to carry the emotional, physical and spiritual load that God has assigned to you.
3. Realize that you may never truly have ‘closure’. Accept that you will have to deal with the physical and emotional pain for the rest of your life.
4. Accept that some thoughts will never stop making you feel horrible, even decades in the future.
5. And most of all realize that your real battle isn’t physical. It’s bigger than the disappointments, depression, betrayal, loneliness, abuse, and sometimes chronic pain. Those demons aren’t just figurative, but literal…
Ephesians 6:12 (NKJV)
12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of [a]the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.
2 Corinthians 10:4 (NKJV)
4 For the weapons of our warfare are not [a]carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds,
Sometimes we find ourselves trying to have closure… trying to get past ‘it’… trying to erase the memories and pain…
When we should be asking God for the strength to deal with those dark moments.
Is it easy? No!
Has everyone mastered it? Of course not. Even many of the ‘spiritually mature’ haven’t.
But, to those who have decided that they would not succumb to the temptation of drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, or other forms of personal abuse to deal with their personal ‘hell’…
You lay awake at night…
You cried tears that no one saw…
You went to work…
You cooked dinner…
You smiled through your pain…
You ignored phone calls…
You put one foot in front of the other…
You prayed…
You studied His word…
You cried out to Him…
You trusted Him more than yourself…
You discovered what, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” really means.
If that’s you…
WE CELEBRATE YOU!
Please share this with someone you know who has overcome their dark days without turning to darkness.
BE BLESSTIFIED!
BE BLESSTIFIED! 
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