The wisdom in the inspired word of God is amazing! It provides a guide, a measuring stick and a test for behavior that transcends time, culture and our own personal theologies, you know, what we CHOOSE to believe.

It’s easy to say I love you or to say I don’t love you anymore, but how do you know if it’s really love?

Well, the bible gives us an incredible test to tell whether or not behavior is actually love that we can use daily in our families, on our jobs, in our churches…in every situation.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8  (NKJV)

Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not [a]puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, [b]thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

If it’s not patient…it’s not love.

If it’s not kind…it’s not love.

If it’s arrogant…it’s not love.

If it’s not humble…it’s not love.

If it’s rude…it’s not love.

If it is selfish…it’s not love.

If it is easily provoked to anger, lust, greed etc,…it’s not love.

If thoughts linger on things against the will of God…it’s not love.

If it rejoices and celebrates evil people, behavior or thoughts…it’s not love.

If it isn’t willing to carry the weight of those who are weaker…it’s not love.

If it isn’t willing to endure, no matter what the difficulty, believe through when belief and faith are most challenged, hope through the the most difficult and seemingly impossible circumstances…it’s not love!

Save this. Copy and paste this. Share this. Use this every day. Look at every situation, and use this as a test to tell…Is it really love?



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