WHY SOMEONE IS FANTASIZING ABOUT YOU…

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You are the object of someone’s fantasy. Someone’s watching you, and they want what you have. Yes, they want your body…

Your cancer-free body…

Your disease-free body…

Your two working legs and arms…

They want your ability to walk and run.

They want your ability to go to work every day.

They want your strength. Not you super strength, but your strength to take care of yourself.


They want ‘What you’ve got!’ Not the opportunity to fulfill their lust, but the opportunity to fulfill their life.


They want your freedom.

They want a family like yours.

They want to be just like you.

They want a roof over their heads…Food to eat…Clothes to wear.


They fantasize about going to the grocery store and filling a shopping cart rather than carrying everything they own in one.


They fantasize about buying a pair of shoes…About going where they want, when they want, in a car.


They fantasize about going to the doctor for check-ups and not treatments.


Someone would trade their good credit for your health…their riches for your peace. They’re watching you.

Please don’t allow our prosperous society to spoil you to the point of covetousness and being ungrateful.


Don’t allow the ‘blessings of abundance’ to become ‘burdens’ to make you feel God is mistreating you if you don’t have everything you want. If you don’ have perfect health. If you don’t have ideal circumstances.


The bible teaches us to be content with food and clothes…

1 Timothy 6:8  (NKJV)

And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content.

God teaches us to not worry about our needs…

Matthew 6:31-34 (NKJV)

31 “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

And, He teaches us to be thankful in all things.

1 Thessalonians 5:18  (NKJV)

18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

Don’t get your wants confused with your needs. And remember, there is always someone ‘less fortunate’ than you…fantasizing to have what you may be taking for granted.

BE BLESSTIFIED

YOU DON’T HAVE TO UNDERSTAND SOMEONE TO LOVE THEM…

Have you ever heard anyone say that you can’t love someone if you don’t understand them? NOT TRUE!

God has commanded that we love one another…

John 13:34-35 (NKJV)

34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 35 By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

There are on caveats or conditions with this command…we just gotta love one another y’all!

God loves us no matter what we do. And, He doesn’t love your worst enemy any less than He loves you.

So remember this.


YOU DON’T HAVE TO UNDERSTAND SOMEONE TO LOVE THEM!


If you’re married, there are some things about your spouse that you’ll never understand.

There will be things about your children or your siblings that will always bother you, and bother you a lot.

There will always be people who’s behavior will never make sense to you.

There will always be people whose behavior you will never condone.

There will always be people who will hate you for absolutely no reason…

And we still have to love all of them! We must still always pray for God to meet them at their every point of need.

We must always pray that they submit to Gods. WORD…WILL..LOVE and SALVATION.

We must always pray that they learn what pleases God…

Ephesians 5:10 (NIV)

10 and find out what pleases the Lord.


We must always pray that they grow in the wisdom and knowledge of God, so they can truly know Him better…

We must always pray that they get to truly KNOW GOD BETTER…


Ephesians 1:17 (NIV)

17 I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit[a] of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better.

As a matter of fact, that’s what makes love REAL When we can truly want the best according to God’s will for someone in the most conditions that challenge love the most…because that’s how God continues to love us.

THERE WILL ALWAYS BE THINGS YOU HATE ABOUT THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE…

BE BLESSTIFIED!

THINK ABOUT THE 3 PEOPLE WHO HAVE HURT YOU THE MOST, THEN DO THIS…

I admit this is not be easy, but it IS so necessary.

God made it very clear that the forgiveness we receive from Him depends directly on the forgiveness we extend to those who have hurt us…

Matthew 6:12 (NLT)

12 Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.


And, after you have forgiven them, you must continue to forgive them OVER and OVER again when you think about what they did (or didn’t do) and it makes you feel angry, ashamed, stupid and hurt all over again. You must continue to forgive them in your heart to MAINTAIN your forgivenesss…

Ephesians 4:32 (NKJV)

32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ FORGAVE you.


So, think about the 3 people in your life who have hurt you the most. it may be…

betrayal,

abuse,

infidelity,

neglect,

or they may have hurt someone you truly love…

…you know what they did, or failed to do. You know how they let you down. Think about those 3 people.

Now, if you haven’t already…forgive them.


Make up your mind to release them from the guilt of what they did to you…even if they don’t feel guilty.

Then, ask God to help relieve the anxiety and pain that you experience when you think of what they did, or see them…or see something that reminds you.

1 Peter 5:7 (NKJV)

casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

Psalm 94:19 (NKJV)

19 In the multitude of my anxieties within me,
Your comforts delight my soul.


I’m not minimizing the severity what they did to you, but God didn’t make a stipulation for that. He just commanded that we forgive.

I know it’s not easy. It may even seem impossible. But, this is where Philippians 4:13 is most powerful…

Philippians 4:13 (NKJV)

13 I can do all things through [a]Christ who strengthens me.

Now, think about those people that you have hurt as much as you’ve been hurt…do you need to ask for forgiveness?

HOW TO MOVE FORWARD WITHOUT AN APOLOGY ( 8 TIPS)…

HOW FORGIVING & FORGETTING DOESN’T MEAN YOU WON’T REMEMBER IT ANYMORE…

WHY WE SHOULD STOP SAYING, “FORGIVENESS ISN’T FOR THEM, IT’S FOR YOU…”

BE BLESSTIFIED!

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