Have you ever noticed how some people will ALLOW a coach to ‘cuss’ their children…
How they expect a drill Sargeant to sternly say anything get the best out of a soldier…
But, get angry (pissed off) at the preacher for a raised voice, or using sharp words to reprove and rebuke.
2 Timothy 4:2 (KJV)
2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine
To REPROVE is to disapprove, to chide to the face as worthy of blame, to expose, to convict.
To REBUKE is to reprimand, strongly warn, restrain.
EXHORTATION is encouragement..
Those who believe the word of God and accept the authority and hierarchy in the church understand what God expects of a Pastor.
Jesus, Yeshua, Himself spoke strong words to the religious leaders, those who were closest to Him, and those who rejected Him…
Hypocrites…( Matthew 15, Matthew 23)
Brood of vipers…(Matthew 12, Matthew 23)
White-washed tombs…(Matthew 23)
And most offensive of all, He called them BASTARDS…
John 8:37-45 (NKJV)
37 “I know that you are Abraham’s descendants, but you seek to kill Me, because My word has no place in you. 38 I speak what I have seen with My Father, and you do what you have seen with[l] your father.”
39 They answered and said to Him, “Abraham is our father.”
Jesus said to them, “If you were Abraham’s children, you would do the works of Abraham. 40 But now you seek to kill Me, a Man who has told you the truth which I heard from God. Abraham did not do this. 41 You do the deeds of your father.”
Then they said to Him, “We were not born of fornication; we have one Father—God.”
42 Jesus said to them, “If God were your Father, you would love Me, for I proceeded forth and came from God; nor have I come of Myself, but He sent Me. 43 Why do you not understand My speech? Because you are not able to listen to My word. 44 You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it. 45 But because I tell the truth, you do not believe Me.
Read all of John 8 for context. They got so angry at Jesus that they took up stones to kill Him.
After calling the Pharisees hypocrites, the disciples told Jesus…
Matthew 15:12 (NKJV)
12 Then His disciples came and said to Him, “Do You know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this saying?”
Remember, Jesus’ rebukes were not just for the hypocritical religious leaders, but also for those closest to Him as in Matthew 17:17.
We must be reminded that love isn’t always delicate, sugary sweet words, warm feelings and heavenly promises…sometimes it’s a reminder of Hell.
When a parent disciplines or gives a child strong correction, it doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t love them.
God will hold the preacher accountable when the people aren’t warned about sin, which sometimes applies to the preacher too.
Ezekial 33: 1-9 (NASB)
And the word of the Lord came to me, saying, 2 “Son of man, speak to the sons of your people and say to them, ‘If I bring a sword upon a land, and the people of the land take one man from among them and make him their watchman, 3 and he sees the sword coming upon the land and blows on the trumpet and warns the people, 4 then he who hears the sound of the trumpet and does not take warning, and a sword comes and takes him away, his blood will be on his own head. 5 He heard the sound of the trumpet but did not take warning; his blood will be on himself. But had he taken warning, he would have delivered his life. 6 But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet and the people are not warned, and a sword comes and takes a person from them, he is taken away [a]in his iniquity; but his blood I will require from the watchman’s hand.’
7 “Now as for you, son of man, I have [b]appointed you a watchman for the house of Israel; so you will hear a [c]message from My mouth and give them warning from Me. 8 When I say to the wicked, ‘O wicked man, you will surely die,’ and you do not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity, but his blood I will require from your hand. 9 But if you on your part warn a wicked man to turn from his way and he does not turn from his way, he will die in his iniquity, but you have delivered your life.
And, warning people about sin isn’t judging, warning isn’t condemnation, it’s helping the hearers avoid condemnation.
Let us all listen with spiritual ears, when we hear words of correction, and always measure it against the word of God and not our feelings.