WHY WE SHOULD LEARN TO REST IN PEACE BEFORE WE DIE…

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Psalm 127:2 (NKJV)

It is vain for you to rise up early,
To sit up late,
To eat the bread of sorrows;
For so He gives His beloved sleep.

Are you tired? You went to bed. You had time away from work, but youโ€™re still tired? Is your mind always racing? Are you either trying to get ahead? Stay ahead? Or, catch up? Maybe youโ€™re just trying to hold it together.


So many of us our so busy. So many of us are either worried, stressed or obsessed.


Then what do we say when someone transitions from this lifeโ€ฆโ€Rest in Peace!โ€


I want to encourage you today to learn to rest in peace BEFORE you die!


One of the enemyโ€™s greatest manipulations is to keep us spiritually weak because we donโ€™t rest. He wants us too tired to read and study Godโ€™s word. He wants us too tired to take the time to pray before we eat our food, before we go to bed at night. He wants us too tired to go to worship.

How many times have you said, โ€œIโ€™m not going to church todayโ€ฆIโ€™m too tired!โ€

Rest is so important to God that He commanded we rest one day every week (Exodus 20:10). He told us to do no work! But, Iโ€™ve noticed that in some church cultures people will go to morning worship, then they will leave and go to another church and worship having whatโ€™s called โ€˜afternoon servicesโ€™ or โ€˜special daysโ€™โ€ฆ.Menโ€™s Day, Womenโ€™s Day etc.  Then some will even have another service in the evening.

Just as much as it is Godโ€™s will that we donโ€™t forsake the assembling of ourselves together and that we worship regularly, itโ€™s not His will for us to spend all day in church to the point that we donโ€™t rest at all. That is establishing our own righteousness (Romans 10:3).

I have to admit when it comes to not getting enough rest. Iโ€™m guilty. Iโ€™m guilty of sometimes letting lifeโ€™s problems weigh too heavy on my mind. Iโ€™m guilty of not stopping to just do nothing and rest my mind, body and spirit

I encourage you to learn to rest in peace before you die. Learn to rest your body. Learn to rest your mind. Learn to rest you spirit. Learn to refresh yourself in Godโ€™s word and prayer. Learn to say NO. Learn to say I canโ€™t do that. Learn to say I need some time to myself. Think of how Jesus would withdraw to Himself (Luke 5:16).

The Lord has promised to help us with our โ€˜rest problemโ€ฆโ€™

Matthew 11:28New King James Version (NKJV)

28 Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Learn to get yourself some rest because if you donโ€™tโ€ฆyouโ€™re being disobedient.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

WHEN IT MAKES NO SENSE TO BE A ‘NO-NONSENSE LEADER…

Many people have a distorted perspective of strength and leadership. Unfortunately, some equate being hard, unyielding, and difficult to strong leadership and assertiveness. In fact, many of the attributes that define God’s spirit and character are considered by many to be weakness…

Galatians 5:22-23 (NKJV)

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 [a]gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.

James 3:17 (NKJV)

17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy.

Oftentimes, leaders will pride themselves on being ‘NO-NONSENSE’ making assertions such as…

“People know better than to come to me with foolishness!”

“I can’t stand and will not tolerate incompetence!”

“Your emergency isn’t my problem!”

Many even brag that, “My people don’t like me!”

The truth is that every NO-NONSENSE leader is sometimes guilty of NONSENSE themselves.

They too need compassion.

They too need grace.

An unapproachable leader limits his or her ability to lead if people are afraid to come to them with mistakes or problems trying to avoid ‘their wrath’.

Limits are placed on leadership when people are afraid to tell the truth.

When people are afraid to come to you with their mistakes, they hide problems and even protect themselves with lies…setting up a ‘time bomb’ that will definitely explode in the future.

An unapproachable leader is the main ingredient in the recipe for a toxic culture, denying himself or herself of vital information because people don’t feel comfortable being honest about what they’ve done or how they feel.

Real servant leadership isn’t about daily feeding one’s ego and reputation, but making those whom you serve feel comfortable enough to come to you with their NONSENSE.

From president to principle to pastor to parent…it makes no sense to be no-nonsense.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

FOR THE PEOPLE WHO GOT THROUGH THEIR DARKEST DAYS WITHOUT DRUGS, ALCOHOL, OR ________….

“For those who overcame their darkest days without turning to darkness.”

There are countless people who have used drugs, alcohol and other forms of personal abuse to help them cope and ‘escape’ from the severe storms of life. And, we find ourselves often celebrating those who have climbed out of the abyss of personal abuse successfully…as we should. Doing so is a great accomplishment.

Disappointment…

Depression…

Betrayal…

Loneliness…

Chronic Pain…

Abuse…

There are countless factors that have led people to turn to drugs and alcohol to both confront and avoid the demons that are attacking them emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

This piece is not meant to belittle or diminish those who have conquered their drug and alcohol demons, but to ALSO celebrate those who have gone through life’s darkest days without turning to drugs or alcohol.

Do you know anyone like that? Has it been you? Is that you now?

Rather than turning to drugs or alcohol, many have turned to the therapy of…

Good memories…

Good music…

Creativity…

Family…

Friends…

And of course their faith in God through Yeshua the Messiah (Jesus Christ).

It’s easy to say, “Just give it to God”, but how do you do that?

1 Peter 5:7 (NKJV)

Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

Part of growing in relationship with God is learning to…

1. First tell Him, “I can’t handle this alone, please help me!”

2. Pray for the strength to carry the emotional, physical and spiritual load that God has assigned to you.

3. Realize that you may never truly have ‘closure’. Accept that you will have to deal with the physical and emotional pain for the rest of your life.

4. Accept that some thoughts will never stop making you feel horrible, even decades in the future.

5. And most of all realize that your real battle isn’t physical. It’s bigger than the disappointments, depression, betrayal, loneliness, abuse, and sometimes chronic pain. Those demons aren’t just figurative, but literal…

Ephesians 6:12 (NKJV)

12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of [a]the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.

2 Corinthians 10:4 (NKJV)

For the weapons of our warfare are not [a]carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds,

Sometimes we find ourselves trying to have closure… trying to get past ‘it’… trying to erase the memories and pain…

When we should be asking God for the strength to deal with those dark moments.

Is it easy? No!

Has everyone mastered it? Of course not. Even many of the ‘spiritually mature’ haven’t.

But, to those who have decided that they would not succumb to the temptation of drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, or other forms of personal abuse to deal with their personal ‘hell’…

You lay awake at night…

You cried tears that no one saw…

You went to work…

You cooked dinner…

You smiled through your pain…

You ignored phone calls…

You put one foot in front of the other…

You prayed…

You studied His word…

You cried out to Him…

You trusted Him more than yourself…

You discovered what, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” really means.

If that’s you…

WE CELEBRATE YOU!

Please share this with someone you know who has overcome their dark days without turning to darkness.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

5 REASONS WE SOMETIMES DON’T WANT TO FORGIVE OTHERS…

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Have you ever been so angry with someone that you didnโ€™t want an apology from them?


โ€œI donโ€™t wanna hear it!โ€ โ€œIโ€™m not ready for that right now!โ€ โ€œYou donโ€™t mean it!โ€


We must always be ready to forgive as God is always ready to forgive us.

Hear are 5 reasons why we sometimes donโ€™t forgiveโ€ฆ

FORGIVING THEM TAKES AWAY OUR EXCUSE TO BE ANGRY

Sometimes when weโ€™re honest with ourselves, we want to remain angry about what they have done. True forgiveness takes away our excuse to be angry at them.

Ephesians 4:31 (NKJV)

31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, [a]clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice.

REMAINING ANGRY CAN MAKE US FEEL POWERFUL

When weโ€™ve been hurt, it can make us feel weak, vulnerable and foolish. However, our anger can give us a perverse feeling of power and strength over the person or persons who hurt us. Forgiveness can make us feel weak if we donโ€™t remember that it is an act of mercy that makes us look more like God.

Ephesians 4:32 (NKJV)

32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

FORGIVING THEM FORCES US TO MOVE ON

 If we arenโ€™t careful, we can find ourselves getting a sense of โ€˜enjoymentโ€™ out of lingering in the past and constantly thinking about and dwelling on what was done to hurt us. Sometimes people just donโ€™t want to move forward.

 Philippians 3:13-14 (NKJV)

13 Brethren, I do not count myself to have [a]apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

HOW TO MOVE FORWARD WITHOUT AN APOLOGY ( 8 TIPS)โ€ฆ

HOW TO FORGET A PAST THAT YOU CANโ€™T FORGETโ€ฆ

FORGIVING THEM ALLOWS THEM TO MOVE ON

Forgiveness is a selfless act that frees the offender from the offense, as it does when God forgives us. God gets nothing out of forgiving us for our sins. He does it to free us and allow us to move forward. Sometimes we can have been hurt so badly by someone, that donโ€™t want them to be free of the offense and donโ€™t want them to move on. We can want them to live in a state of perpetual regret for what they’ve done. Forgiving them frees them from owing us an apology. Remember what Yeshua, Christ Jesus saidโ€ฆ

 Matthew 6:15  (NKJV)

15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

WHY WE SHOULD STOP SAYING, โ€œFORGIVENESS ISNโ€™T FOR THEM, ITโ€™S FOR YOUโ€ฆโ€

FORGIVING THEM ALLOWS THEM TO BE ‘GOOD’ AGAIN

When someone hurts us bad enough, we can find ourselves wanting them to be characterized as bad no matter what they do. Be careful when you feel someone isnโ€™t sincere in their repentance or apology or not worthy of repentance.

Do any of these 5 reasons apply to you?

BE BLESSTIFIED!

 

 

 

 

 

IF YOUโ€™RE STILL GLAD YOU DID IT, THEN GOD HASNโ€™T FORGIVEN YOUโ€ฆYET.

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We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23).

 We have all done some things of which we are ashamedโ€ฆat least I hope so.

Why?

Because our shame is what leads to godly sorrowโ€ฆwhich leads to true repentanceโ€ฆ

2 Corinthians 7:10 (NKJV)

 For godly sorrow produces repentance leading to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces death.

 Remember that repentance isnโ€™t simply just asking God for forgiveness, but a made up, resolute mind to completely turn from the sin that weโ€™ve committed or have been practicing. Repentance according to Strongโ€™s Concordance literally means โ€œa change of mindโ€. All sin, no matter how spontaneous, begins with a thought.


Repentance is a legal U-Turn in your mindโ€ฆ

God wants us to REPENT and not REPEAT!


So, itโ€™s good when we have regret of what we did. In fact, we should make the most of our regrets to be better people. Find out more about this in my article, โ€œHow to Make the Most of Your Regretsโ€.

But, what about when we donโ€™t have regrets? What about those things that weโ€™re glad we did?

It may have given us pleasureโ€ฆ

We may have felt vindicatedโ€ฆ

We may have โ€˜gotten evenโ€™ with someoneโ€ฆ

It might have given us gloryโ€ฆ

We may have gained wealth and prominenceโ€ฆ

Whatever the reasonโ€ฆyou know in your heart that it was WRONG, but youโ€™re still GLAD (sometimes even proud) you did it.

I remember when I was a teenager, I used to have older men come to me and brag about how they used to โ€˜run the womenโ€™ when they were youngerโ€ฆbut not in a shameful, โ€œDonโ€™t make the same mistakes I madeโ€ type of way. No, they were bragging. They were trying to impress me. It was clear they were still proud of if. Well, if theyโ€™ve asked God to forgive themโ€ฆthe sin is still there.

God only forgives us when we repent. Yes, weโ€™ve all gone back and done some things that we had not only asked forgiveness for, but also promised God that we would not do again. He knew when we said it.


But, God knows the difference in a changed mind that really worked hard, and sometimes even struggled not to go backโ€ฆAnd, when someone is actually proud of what they did.

God knows when we unexpectedly end up in tempting situationsโ€ฆAnd, when we actually position ourselves to commit the same sin again.


Think for a moment. Is there a sin in which God hasnโ€™t forgiven you?

If youโ€™re still glad that you did itโ€ฆ

If you know in your heart that you would do it againโ€ฆ

If you think back on it fondlyโ€ฆ

If you sometimes brag about itโ€ฆ

If you have no shameโ€ฆ

Then itโ€™s a good chance that you havenโ€™t repented, and if notโ€ฆthat sin is still there.

Think of how you feel when someone has hurt you, and even though they say theyโ€™re โ€œsorryโ€โ€ฆthey continue to do it over and over, or they donโ€™t show any remorse.

Thatโ€™s evidence that weโ€™re made in Godโ€™s image, the fact that we can hurt just as He hurts when done wrong.

You seeโ€ฆweโ€™re like our Father in heavenโ€ฆ

We want people to REPENT and not REPEAT too.

Examine yourself today. If there is sin in your life that you donโ€™t regret. Pray for a repentant heart. Make an effort to have a total change of mind about that sin.

If you donโ€™t regret it because it gave you pleasureโ€ฆthink of how that pleasure hurt God.

If you donโ€™t regret it because you felt vindicated for got evenโ€ฆforgive.

If you donโ€™t regret it because it gave you gloryโ€ฆthink of the fact that you were sharing that glory with the devil and not God.

If you donโ€™t regret it because you gained wealth or prominenceโ€ฆuse your resources and influence to give glory to God.

Be ashamed enough of what you did that it hurts you to think of yourself doing it againโ€ฆ

Make a legal U-Turn in your mind.

REPENT and donโ€™t REPEAT

BE BLESSTIFIED!

WHY A PUBLIC EMBARRASSMENT DESERVES A PUBLIC APOLOGY…

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DON’T TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT WITH YOUR APOLOGY

Has anyone ever embarrassed, hurt or insulted you openly in public? Have you ever done so? Have you ever made public some information about someone later to find out that information was wrong? Have you ever defamed or slandered someone?

For whatever reason, we all openly hurt one another from time to time. Sometimes we do it on purpose, and sometimes it’s unintentional. These ‘public displays of ‘non-affection’ can leave bad impressions and potentially ruin reputations of all parties involved.
When we embarrass someone, we often have influenced the opinions of others about that person… we need to make it right.

So, many times when we realize what we’ve done, truly feel sorry and want to apologize.  We’ll pull the person or persons to the side and tell them, “I’m sorry… I was wrong”.


This is good but not good enough…


Acts 16:37 (NKJV)

37 But Paul said to them, โ€œThey have beaten us openly, uncondemned Romans, and have thrown us into prison. And now do they put us out secretly? No indeed! Let them come themselves and get us out.โ€

Those who heard or witnessed the embarrassment may still think you were right. Those who heard or witnessed the insult may still be influenced by what you did or said…that public embarrassment deserves a public apology.

I remember growing up in church that sometimes in testimonies, people would stand before the church and proclaim, “If I’ve ever done anything to hurt anyone here today, I’m sorry”…if you know who you hurt and what you did, this also is not good enough.

If you know that you slapped someone in the face, simply saying, “I’m sorry IF I hurt you” isn’t enough. If you slandered someone, making a blanket statement to a group that, “If I hurt SOMEONE, I’m sorry” is just not enough.

If you know what you did and who you did it to, then you need to show enough respect to call out their name.


It’s good to apologize, but if we aren’t careful, we can take the easy way out and not fully respect the person or persons that we have hurt.


 

Matthew 5:23-24 (NKJV)

23 Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.

Don’t take the easy way out with your apology.
BE BLESSTIFIED!!!

WHEN WE FEEL WE DESERVE A ‘PAT ON THE BACK’ FOR DOING WHAT WE’RE SUPPOSED TO DO…

Have you ever heard a father brag about paying the bills? Putting food on the table? He may even say, โ€œI deserve to run around with the fellas or hang our because heโ€™s holding it down for his family. Have you ever heard a mother brag about taking care of her family? About being at home for her children? Have you heard a father or mother brag about not โ€˜running the streetsโ€™, about dealing with the difficulties of life without turning to drugs or alcohol?

How about this one? ” I’m faithful to my spouse!”

Have you ever heard a child brag about doing their homework and staying out of trouble?

 Have you every heard a Christian brag about regularly attending church, being faithful in giving or studying their bible?

 This is all good, but it is absolutely nothing to brag about.

 Why?

 Because they are all doing what they are supposed to do. They are all doing whatโ€™s expected of them.

Whatโ€™s unfortunate that we live in a society where so many people are not doing what they supposed to do, that those who are may seem beyond the norm, or even special…feel they deserve a pat on the back.

One of my favorite movie scenes is in the movie, โ€œGuess Whose Coming To Dinnerโ€ when Roy Glennโ€™s character who played Sidney Poitierโ€™s characterโ€™s father was lecturing his adult son about how hard he worked to make sure he had everything he needed, as he objected to his son dating a white woman. He told him this as if his son owed him something for providing for him. Sidney Poitierโ€™s character quickly rebuked his father for making him feel obligated for doing what he was supposed to do. He then lovingly acknowledged his love and respect for him.

 In an age absent and distracted parents and rebellious children, those doing their duty can begin to feel specialโ€ฆwhen they actually arenโ€™t.

 Notice what Jesus had to say about simply doing our dutyโ€ฆ

 Luke 17:7-10 (NKJV)

And which of you, having a servant plowing or tending sheep, will say to him when he has come in from the field, โ€˜Come at once and sit down to eatโ€™? 8 But will he not rather say to him, โ€˜Prepare something for my supper, and gird yourself and serve me till I have eaten and drunk, and afterward you will eat and drinkโ€™? 9 Does he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I think not.[a] 10 So likewise you, when you have done all those things which you are commanded, say, โ€˜We are unprofitable servants. We have done what was our duty to do.โ€™โ€

 Be thankful if God has blessed you with a mind and the discipline to hold down your role as father, mother, son, daughter, employee, citizen, disciple, Pastor as expected. Yes, we all make mistakes, but you havenโ€™t gotten โ€˜caught upโ€™ or distracted to the level of some othersโ€ฆbut we should never think we deserve a pat on the back, are โ€˜specialโ€™,  or โ€˜owed somethingโ€™ for doing our duty as God expects.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

THE BLESSING IN LOSING HER MINDโ€ฆ

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Years ago I used to do nursing home ministry. I would visit two nursing homes, once each month. As I walked down through the halls I would see the same faces. There were some residents who had regular visits from family and friends, but unfortunately, there too many who never got a visitorโ€ฆever.

There were also varying levels of mental health. One lady in particular at one of the nursing homes would say the same thing during every visit. She would sit in her wheelchair in the entrance to her room as I walked byโ€ฆsmile and say, โ€œIโ€™m going home todayโ€. No, she wasnโ€™t going home. She was one of the residents who never had visitors, and her family had moved on with their lives. At first I felt sorry for her because her situation seemed so hopelessโ€ฆbut then God gave me an awesome revelation.

In her hopeless situationโ€ฆher dementia was a blessing!

Blessing? How was her dementia a blessing?

In reality, she woke up every morning WITHOUT hope of going home.

But through her dementia, she woke up every morning WITH hope of going home.

God gave her a reason to smile EVERY DAY.

God gave her something to look forward to EVERY DAY.

God gave her HOPE in a HOPELESS situation.

She spent her last days with HOPE.

What many may think of as a CURSE, was actually a BLESSING to her.

Godโ€™s wisdom is amazing!

He can can pull HOPE out of HOPElessโ€ฆ

FORTUNE our of unFORTUNALTEโ€ฆ

Stop and give God praise for His unfathomable wisdom. Paul was right in Romans 11โ€ฆ

Romans 11: 33-36

33 Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and His ways past finding out! 34 โ€œFor who has known the mind of the Lord?

Or who has become His counselor?โ€

35 โ€œOr who has first given to Him

And it shall be repaid to him?โ€

36 For of Him and through Him and to Him are all things, to whom be glory forever. Amen.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

YOU ALWAYS HAVE THE SOLUTION TO SOMEONE ELSE’S PROBLEM…

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No matter how many problems you have. No matter how many issues you’re struggling with. No matter how little money, influence or resources you may have. God has still given you the solution to someone else’s problem.

Even if your meal is free, God has equipped you to bring something of value to the table.

It may not have a dollar $ign…

Encouragement…

Inspiration

Entertainment

Education

Strength

Support

A shoulder…

An ear…

A voice…

To the friendship…

To the marriage.

To the team.

To the organization.

To your church.

To a stranger.


Even if you’re broke, you can be the key to someone’s breakthrough.


Not only no matter your situation, but BECAUSE of your situation, God is strategically positioning you with the people and places where you can be a blessing.

Remember this…

James 2:5(NKJV)

5 Listen, my beloved brethren: Has God not chosen the poor of this world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom which He promised to those who love Him?

Now…Get out there and bless somebody today!

BE BLESSTIFIED!

HOW EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IS GOD’S CURE FOR CRIME…

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People are constantly looking for answers to crime. I hear cries for police and politicians to find solutions. The truth is that police and politicians canโ€™t stop crime.

Politicians and leaders can ONLY MAKE laws.

Police can ONLY ENFORCE the law.

But neither can make anyone obey the law. Neither can instill the character, integrity, self-control, discipline, respect for the lives, property and opinions of others necessary to reduce or cure crime. Even God Himself watched His people struggle with trying to live up to the standards of the Law, but the Lawโ€™s purpose is define right and wrong, to give us boundaries and Godโ€™s standards. God Himself gives us the responsibility and power to โ€˜do the right thingsโ€™. God has a cure for crime, and itโ€™s really simpleโ€ฆ
1. Submit to His will
2. Let His love rule in your heart (let love be the filter for your decisions)
3. Walk in His Spirit
4. Learn to Control Our Emotions

(1) Godโ€™s will always puts whatโ€™s best for us first, so submitting to His compels us to always do whatโ€™s best for one another…

Philippians 2:3 tells us to…

Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit and to esteem others better than himself. Itโ€™s Godโ€™s will that we put others first.

(2) When we allow love to be the filter through which every decision is made, we will not do anything to harm our neighbors…

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 eloquently describes the behavior and character of love…

4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[a] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

(3) When we walk in the Spirit, it makes it more difficult to follow through on the urges of our flesh that can lead to crime, as Galatians 5:16 makes very clear…

Galatians 5:16  (ESV)

16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.

(4) I feel that EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE is the most powerful tool God has given us to cure crime. Psychology Today defines Emotional Intelligence as the ability to identify and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others. This is behavioral science that is in perfect harmony with scripture…

Colossians 3:5-7 (NKJV)

5 Therefore PUT TO DEATH your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6 Because of these things the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience, 7 in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them. 8 But now YOU YOURSELVES ARE TO PUT OFF all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth

1 Peter 2:1 (NKJV)

So PUT AWAY all malice and all deceit and hypocrisy and envy and all slander.

Ephesians 4:31 (NKJV)

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander BE PUT AWAY from you, along with all malice.

Hebrews 12:1 (NKJV)

Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, LET US LAY ASIDE EVERY WEIGHT, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

God commands that WE OURSELVES lay aside, put away, put off, and put to death those things that cause us to stumble.

Most crime comes from a failure to control emotions…

Anger

Lust

Jealousy

Depression

Boredom

Greed

Even apathy leads to sins of omission. Stop and think of various crimes and how they can be linked back to an emotion. We must facilitate cultures of emotional control for crime to reduce. Police canโ€™t do it, Politicians canโ€™t do it, Marches canโ€™t do itโ€ฆonly submitting to God will solve our crime problem. Laws makes our MINDS aware of ‘right and wrong’, but change comes from the HEART.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

THE #1 REASON CHRISTIANS SHOULD IGNORE HOROSCOPES (EVEN JUST FOR FUN)…

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Them: When’s your birthday?

Me: September 26th.

Them: So you’re a Libra!

Me: Nope.

Have you ever heard anyone make this statement, or have made it yourself?

โ€œYou wonโ€™t go to Hell for doing it.โ€

Too many Christians feel as though as long as they are paying their tithes and going to church regularly that, โ€˜theyโ€™re goodโ€™.

Sometimes times there will be an issue or behavior that is questionable or vague, or maybe not even addressed directly in the bible. Many times there will be an issue or behavior that we really enjoy, but there is reason to believe it might be displeasing to God. Then there are issues that are addressed, but many people either don’t make the connection, or don’t care about how those issues relate to us today.

There are many Christians who donโ€™t only define themselves as children of God, they also define themselves by โ€˜theirโ€™ zodiac sign.

How does God feel about someone asking, “What’s your sign?”

Zephaniah 1:5-6 (NKJV)

5.โ€œThose who worship the host of heaven on the housetops; Those who worship and swear oaths by the LORD, But also swear by Milcom (or Molech) 6.Those who have turned back from following the LORD, And have not sought the LORD, nor inquired of Him.

โ€œIโ€™m a Gemini so you better watch our for meโ€ฆ.โ€

โ€œIโ€™m a Pisces so you can trust meโ€ฆโ€

You get the picture?

Most of us know that it became very popular in the latter part of the 20th Century to refer to zodiac signs to determine if two people were compatible in relationships.

Some people will even check out their daily horoscope for guidance for the day. How many Christians have you seen post the daily horoscope on their timeline?

Have you ever taken the time to research the origin of zodiac signs. Think about this…zodiac signs are treated as proper nouns.

Check this outโ€ฆ

Deuteronomy 4:19 (NKJV)

And take heed, lest you lift up your eyes to heaven, and when you see the sun, the moon, and the stars, all the host of heaven, you feel driven to worship them and serve them, which the LORD your God has given to all the peoples under the whole heaven as a heritage.

Remember, worship is beyond ‘going to church’. Think about Romans 12:1…

Romans 12:1 (NIV)

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of Godโ€™s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to Godโ€”this is your true and proper worship.

Our worship extends into how we live our lives on a daily basis. God expects us to get our guidance from Him and Him alone. He has given us His Holy Spirit to lead us, guide us, convict us, to help us make the right decisions.

Isaiah 47:13 (NKJV)

13 You are wearied in the multitude of your counsels;
Let now the astrologers, the stargazers,
And the monthly prognosticators
Stand up and save you
From what shall come upon you.

One of the beautiful things about the Old Testament is that it gave us extreme examples of what behavior God loves and what behavior He hates. Even though Jesus fulfilled the law, we can gain great insight looking at the behavior of ancient Israel and how God reacted to it.

Think about this. When Moses was given the task of going into Egypt to free the children of Israel, God told Moses to tell them, โ€œI AM has sent me to youโ€ (Exodus 3:14). I AM is Godโ€™s name. Itโ€™s who He is. Itโ€™s His essence. Itโ€™s what He does. And so are you. Be very careful what you say behind your, โ€œI amโ€. Check this out…BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY BEHIND YOUR, โ€œI AMโ€ฆโ€

“I am a Virgo.” “I am a Libra.” Do you feel comfortable defining yourself as something God has forbidden?

Do you feel comfortable getting guidance from something God has forbidden?

Do you feel comfortable choosing a mate based on something God has forbidden?

Do you feel comfortable basing your personality on something God has forbidden?

Or, do you enjoy it so much that right now you are reasoning within yourself how Iโ€™m wrong and looking for verses or justification to keep doing it. That may be a โ€˜signโ€™ that you are too connected to it.

Well if God forbids it, why do the personality traits seem so on point sometimes? We all know that the enemy disguises himself as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14).


But, hereโ€™s the number one reason I think that people of God should ignore the horoscopeโ€ฆ

BECAUSE IT HURTS GOD!


Even if He wonโ€™t send you to Hell for it. Even if you think itโ€™s harmless. If God said donโ€™t do it, that means it hurts Him. When you love someone, thereโ€™s some things you donโ€™t do not because you think they will leave you, but because you know it hurts them.

Have you ever noticed that before God got angry, He was always hurt first? Have you noticed how God sometimes pleaded with and appealed to Israel like a hurt lover?

Micah 6 1:3 (NKJV)

โ€œOh My people, what have I done to you? And how have I wearied you? Testify against Me.โ€

The #1 reason we should ignore the horoscope is because it hurts the God of our Salvation.

Please think about this before you ask someone, “What is your sign?”

BE BLESSTIFIED!

WORRIED ABOUT LOSING YOUR FREEDOM? LOOK AT YOUR OWN PRIDE FIRST…

The crisis and calamities going on globally today are of a biblical proportion. As many people struggle to understand why, I ask you to consider this…

When and where did it become acceptable for those who believe in God through Yeshua the Messiah (Jesus Christ) to have pride?

God has made it very clear that pride is one of the deadliest sins… That He hates it…and that He resists it!


Proverbs 6:16-19  (NKJV)

16 These six things the Lord hates,
Yes, seven are an abomination to [a]Him:
17 A[b] proud look,
A lying tongue,
Hands that shed innocent blood,
18 A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that are swift in running to evil,
19 A false witness who speaks lies,
And one who sows discord among brethren.


James 4:6  (NKJV)

But He gives more grace. Therefore He says:

โ€œGod resists the proud,
But gives grace to the humble.โ€


God resists THE PROUD and He resists THAT OF WHICH WE ARE PROUD OF!

God has not given us permission to be proud of ANYTHING!

Race,

Nation,

Accomplishments,

History,

Heritage,

Children,

Family,

Education,

Any monument,

Any statue,

Any flag,

ANYTHING!

From pride comes arrogance, hatred, racism, exclusion, supremacy, and the idolatry self-worship or worshipping the institutions we have established.

God does not allow us to be proud to be Black, White, Latino, American, European, or African. He doesn’t give us permission to be proud of any institution that we have established.

Pride is the source of many of the problems in our society today. You do know it’s the devil that’s convinced us this is okay…right?

The problems we are TOO PROUD and NOT THANKFUL enough. Think about it, God has commanded that we be thankful and not proud…

1 Thessalonians 5:18  (NKJV)

18 in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.


Anytime we use the word ‘PRIDE’ or ‘PROUD’, the word ‘THANKFU’L is always more appropriate! Try it!


“I’m proud of my race”…. “I’m thankful for my race.”

“I’m proud of my country”…”I’m thankful for my country.”

“I’m proud of my accomplishments… “I’m thankful for my accomplishments.”

“I’m proud of my heritage… “I’m thankful for my heritage.”

“I’m proud of my children,,,”I’m thankful for my children.”

Once we claim we are proud, we’ve opened the door for the devil to pervert that pride into idolatry. Remember, you don’t have to bow to a graven image to commit idolatry…that’s why God said that covetousness (greed) is idolatry…

Colossians 3:5  (NKJV)

Therefore put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.

Israel was exiled from their land and lost their freedom, not because of the sinners in the land, but because of their own PRIDE, ARROGANCE, COMPROMISE, COMPLA ASSIMILATION, and SPIRITUAL ADULTERY! That’s why God said…

2 Chronicles 7:14  (NKJV)

14 if My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land.

Many Americans are afraid of losing their freedom and pointing their fingers at many causes. Before you blame the potential loss of your freedom on anything…look at your own pride.

If you don’t agree, just look at what God said Himself…

Proverbs 16:18 (NKJV)

18 Pride goes before destruction,
And a haughty spirit before [a]a fall.

Maybe, just maybe God is tearing down the idols of our hearts (Economy, Sports, Politics, Heritage). The real enemy โ€˜withinโ€™ is the enemy within us.

WHY GODโ€™S JUDGEMENT CANโ€™T BE BLAMED ONLY ON UNBELIEVERS & โ€˜SINNERSโ€™โ€ฆ

BE BLESSTIFIED!

GODโ€™S TANGIBLE INTANGIBLESโ€ฆ

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An intangible is something with no physical substance. It canโ€™t be touched or seenโ€ฆitโ€™s immaterial.

God is intangibleโ€ฆwe canโ€™t see Him, but His creation is evidence of His presenceโ€ฆeverywhere.

Romans 1:20

20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse,

Itโ€™s interesting that itโ€™s the intangibles in life that are so valuable, that those things that hold so much value can NEVERโ€ฆ

Be bought, but are yet so valuableโ€ฆ

Be seen, but are most realโ€ฆ

Be held, but fill you upโ€ฆ

Be touched, but touch youโ€ฆ

Theyโ€™re Godโ€™s TANGIBLE INTANGIBLES.

Theyโ€™re like God..not physical, or materialโ€ฆJust like God, they canโ€™t be seen, but they leave so much evidence of their presence. Think about itโ€ฆ

Loveโ€ฆ

Faithโ€ฆ

Joyโ€ฆ

Hope

Peaceโ€ฆ

Patienceโ€ฆ

Kindnessโ€ฆ

Self-controlโ€ฆ

Iโ€™m sure you can think of more.

Theyโ€™re nouns that canโ€™t be seenโ€ฆ

Theyโ€™re verbs that pack so much powerโ€ฆ

Theyโ€™re from God, and He transfers them from His spirit to ours.

Itโ€™s a gradual, but sudden transfer as you feel yourself going fromโ€ฆ

Unloved to lovedโ€ฆ

Faithless to faithfulโ€ฆ

Sad to Joyfulโ€ฆ

Hopeless to Hopefulโ€ฆ

Chaos to peaceโ€ฆ

Impatience to patienceโ€ฆ

Mean to Kindnessโ€ฆ

Undisciplined to disciplinedโ€ฆ

You canโ€™t see it, touch it, smell it, buy it, or sell itโ€ฆ

They change youโ€ฆ

They change your worldโ€ฆ

They change the world of everyone around youโ€ฆ

They allow the world to see God in youโ€ฆ

Theyโ€™re Godโ€™s TANGIBLE INTANGIBLESโ€ฆ

AND THEYโ€™RE MORE REAL THAN ANYTHING YOU CAN SEE OR FEEL!

Galatians 5:22 (NKJV)

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

1 Corinthians 13:13

13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

 

 

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