Let’s say you have three adult children, two with blond hair and one with brown hair, and the child with brown hair feels you have been treating the other two (the majority) better than him or her.

The brown haired child knows your hair is blonde too and feels the favoritism is based on hair color.

You admit to yourself that you love all your children, but know in your heart you prefer blond hair. As you think back, you realize that has affected your decisions and behavior in the past.

Your child with brown hair looks in your eyes and says, “I MATTER TOO!”

If you begin to show compassion and equity to your brown haired child, does that mean the other two don’t matter?

Be honest with God in your response, and yourself.

Philippians 2:3 (NKJV)

^{3 (A)}Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but ^(B)in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

BE BLESSTIFIED!

With everything going on in the world today here’s :50 seconds of LOVE, PEACE, and real Harmony from my wife Mechelle Johnson & Natural Elegance covering Rene & Angela’s “Your Smile” with a beautiful a cappella ending.

This beautiful memory was ‘harmonized’ at Hard Rock Cafe Memphis in 2018.

Remember how the unclean spirit would leave King Saul every time David played beautiful music on his harp?

1 Samuel 16:23

²³ And so it was, whenever the spirit from God was upon Saul, that David would take a harp and play itwith his hand. Then Saul would become refreshed and well, and the distressing spirit would depart from him.

When you feel troubled, allow some sweet music to ‘speak’ some peace into your life.

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Prayer/devotional time alone.

Prayer/devotional time together.

Personal time alone.

Quality time together.

‘Happy hour’ together.

Intimate time together.

Enjoy sweet music together.

Enjoy at least one meal together.

Resolve arguments together.

Go to bed together.

BE BLESSTIFIED!