When it comes to sex, married couples aren’t in the mood at the same time.
“I have a headache.”
It’s a given couples won’t be on the same page sexually all the time, but the bible gives some sound advice and a good reason (warning) why in 1 Corinthians Chapter 7…
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 (NKJV)
3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Hey! Don’t kill the messenger:-)
Notice I did say, “sometimes”. Of course you should always talk to you spouse and consider how he or she feels.
Marriage is work!