Too many those of us who attend church regularly criticize or judge new members who joined but drifted away.
Nothing deep here, just four things I think we should consider before we open our mouths…
1. They come to church looking for something and it doesn’t happen fast enough, so they leave.
2. They come to church looking for something and it happens quickly, then they leave.
3. We, who should be mature in the faith, run them away because we forget they are weaker, OR we aren’t nurturing enough, OR we’re too self-righteous.
4. They came seeking something other than God. This is usually the reason for 1 & 2. (That will be discussed in tomorrow’s post.)
Romans 14:1 (NKJV)
Receive one who is weak in the faith, but not to disputes over doubtful things.
Romans 15:1 (NKJV)
We then who are strong ought to bear with the scruples of the week, and not to please ourselves.
BE BLESSTIFIED!
BE BLESSTIFIED! 
And sometimes they leave only because you are doing everything right. To that effect, it is good if they leave if they are not part of it. Great post. Thank you.
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You are right my friend. God bless you.
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Well said and so very true!
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I think that #3 is the main reason why most churches keep losing members.
In fact, that is why I have left a few churches in the past.
I do not mind going to different churches or even one good church monthly. But, joining a church is something I really do not want to do again. I have enough problems to deal at home and work.
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I pray you stumble on a place that makes you feel at home.
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thanks
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Lets not belittle church shopping either! In this day and age it is an unfortunate necessity due to false teachings creeping in or church splits.
Have a blessed Lord’s Day, Brother!
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That is so true Sherry!
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Hi Brother do you agree they leave church because they want what Joel Osteen talks about and not what Jesus says.
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Hi there. I’m sure there are some who do.
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The church I have been attending for the last two years has had a major split. Half of the long standing members have left. Not many are concerned. They call it church pruning .
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Interesting.
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